It’s about nothing but surrendering to our lizard brain, giving up power. As it is happening in our minds, consent is out of question.
Consensual non consent free#
Rape fantasies are mistakenly named - it is an imaginary act of being taken by a passionate male, free from any possible assault. (The things I do for our blog here, hehe). So what is it about consensual-non consent that was so attractive for people? I set out on a two week-long research journey and tried it out for myself. Even when I was being tied, I still had the power to stop it the moment I wished to. The idea of control is what helped me the most.
BDSM has helped me regain control of my body, it has let me reclaim my body for myself. The most common ones include being kidnapped and forced to perform sexual acts, and so on, but at the core of the act is agreeing to give up control and let the other carry out their deepest, darkest desires.Īs a survivor, it took me an age to not dissociate from my body at the idea of sexual intimacy. I’ve flinched every time I’ve stumbled across the words, or when I see people talking about consensual non-consent – a BDSM roleplay kink where people consent to taking part in acts of primal aggressiveness where they give up control. As someone who has forever been scarred by their own history with sexual assault, rape fantasies have always been something that shook me to the core.
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